A student ask a teacher, “what is love ?”
The teacher said, “in order to answer your question, go to the paddy field and choose the biggest paddy and come back. But the rule is: you can go through them only once and cannot turn back to pick.”
The student went to the field, go through first row, he saw one big paddy,but he wondered….may be there was a bigger one later.
Then he saw another bigger one…but may be there was a even bigger one waiting for him. Later, when he finished more than half of the paddy field, he started to realise that the paddy was not as big as the previous one he saw, he knew he has missed the biggest one, and he regretted !!!!
So, he ended up, went back to the teacher with empty hand.
The teacher told him, “…this is love… you keep looking for a better one, but when later you realise, you have already miss the person….”
” What is marriage then ?” the student asked.
The teacher said, “in order to answer your question, go to the corn field and choose the most beautiful corn and come back. But the rule is: you can go through them only once and cannot turn back to pick.”
The student went to the corn field, this time he was careful not to repeat the previous mistake, when he reached the middle of the field, he has picked one nice corn that he felt satisfied, and went back to the teacher.
The teacher told him, “this time you brought back a corn….you look for one that is just nice, and you have faith and believe this is the best one for u…. this is marriage .”